Dr. Matthew Horkey: Chaos, is it a good thing?

Monday Motivation:
Today I get to introduce my first guest blogger! Dr. Matthew Horkey is a chiropractor currently practicing in Jakarta, Indonesia. Matt graduated from Michigan State in 2004 and consistently sinks more 3-point shots on the court than anyone I’ve ever seen! I first met Matt before he became “Dr. Matt” while he was in school to be a chiropractor.

It didn’t take long for me to figure out that Matt is someone who is going to flip the world on its axis. His passion for life has landed him on the other side of the world, and he has the fire and determination to create major changes in the profession and in the health care industry, as a whole. This is Dr. Matt’s personal recap of 2010 – his most challenging and rewarding year yet.

“The beginning of 2010 placed me in Indonesia, with no knowledge of the language, no friends or family and not a dime to my name. I scratched and clawed to grow a clinic from the ground up only to see myself uprooted and deported out of the country. I landed in Singapore with a backpack on my shoulders and most of my possessions still back in Indonesia. I bounced around from hotel to hotel, and floors of two of my boss’ empty homes only to find out I could not return to Indonesia, a country I was starting to call home, for one whole year. After practicing in two Singapore clinics I decided to take two weeks and head to Thailand to get my head clear. Upon arrival back into Singapore I discovered I would be opening a new clinic there, I would only have to wait three more months…

I vividly remember after getting back from Thailand, sitting in my boss/mentor’s car with tears flowing uncontrollably from my eyes. Why was everything in shambles for me? I had prepared so hard for this moment, the chance to practice chiropractic, the chance to make a difference in people’s lives. I was completely discombobulated, totally confused. What should I do? I thought seriously about giving up my dream of becoming a great chiropractor, perhaps the universe was trying to point me in a different direction.

It’s funny when you look at the curve balls life throws at us. I truly believe we are tested to see what we are made of, and yes the strong survive. Calvin Coolidge said it best:

Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. The slogan “press on” has solved and always will solve the problems of the human race.

With the help from some friends and some good ole words from cool Cal, I made the choice to put my head down and move forward. So here it is…

In 2010 I began my career practicing chiropractic, I started two clinics from scratch in two different countries, I was on television twice, I learned what it felt like to become deported, I was published in two chiropractic journals, I went out with a Miss Indonesia finalist, I lost everything financially, TWICE, I traveled with a great healer through the Golden Land (Thailand), I lived in a guesthouse, a high rise apartment, two hotels, and floors of two different houses, I shed more tears and had more self-doubt than in any time of my life, and while building the second clinic, increased my income ten fold in two months time.

In 2010, I truly can say I laid it all on the line. It was painful, crazy, and exhilarating all at the same time. I now sit in gratitude as the second clinic is flourishing, and I’m having a blast once again turning on life in the clinic each and everyday. In 2010, I not only hit the bottom of the barrel, I got trapped in it while it was rolled down a steep hill. I wouldn’t change anything about the tumultuous year, because it was in 2010, that I faced the biggest challenges in my young career.

Chaos, is it a good thing? On the other side of chaos lies growth. Chaos is necessary for adaptation, for survival. We all have a dream, however, are we going to shrivel up and turn our backs when challenges come our way? Or do we choose to be steadfast and exhibit perseverance like President Coolidge suggested? What are we willing to do to make our dreams reality?

One of my favorite chiropractors, John Demartini said it best, ‘You must do whatever it takes, travel whatever distance, and pay whatever price…’

May your journey be fruitful, and full of chaos.”

As we embark on resolutions and the hope of what a new year will bring, it’s important to reflect on the past year and all that we’ve accomplished. In 2010 we have attempted; we have succeeded; we have failed; we have experienced; we have dreamed; we have given; we have reached; we have committed; we have detached; we have tried harder. The bottom line is: We are here, now. And we continue to “press on.”

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Learning to give more and spend less, one day at a time
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6 Responses to Dr. Matthew Horkey: Chaos, is it a good thing?

  1. Jeremy Craig says:

    Dr. Horkey is one of two people that I have met at Life University that I really admire, the other being Dr. Roe. Jenni is right from the first day I met Dr. Horkey he has had “It” whatever “It” is. It’s great for someone like me, who has been trying to find “It” all my life, to know that even someone like Dr. Horkey struggles. The only time I have ever seen him struggle is guarding me on the basketball court! 🙂 Thanks Dr. Horkey for telling your story and inspiring us all.

    • jennib85 says:

      I totally agree, Babe! And I think I’m going to frame those three words in big, bold letters, “Jenni is right.” That sums it up for me!! And by the way, you already have “it.” No need in searching for it – you inspire me every day 🙂

  2. Rizalenio says:

    Wow! This is really inspiring. Thanks a lot for sharing this.

    “Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence” and the slogan “PRESS ON” – these words are going to be my guiding principles this year. Persistence and determination are the keys.

    Can I share this link to my friends via facebook? Thank you in advance.

  3. gramma says:

    Very inspiring! If you want it, you gotta go for it, and go for it and keep going for it. Otherwise, it was just a whim and you really didn’t want it. Gotta give him a lot of credit! (and it applies to all of us guys) Thanks

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